How Do I Respond to Suffering?

“God Doesn’t Give Us More Than We Can Handle”

In high school, Mr. Doussa, my government and sociology teacher, responded to a project I did on being a Christian. He couldn’t believe in God because "God doesn’t give us more than we can handle." His life experiences, marked by the tragic loss of a child, was more than he could handle.

At the time, I was unable to articulate that the phrase wasn't a biblical truth. I didn't know how to convey the depth of God's grace and promise to be with us in times of suffering. Now, looking back, I realize the importance of addressing these questions and doubts. Today, I want to explore a timeless story that addresses the complexities of suffering: the Book of Job.

Job's Journey Begins

In the land of Uz lived Job, a blameless and upright man who feared God and shunned evil. He was prosperous, with a large family and abundant possessions. Job's commitment to righteousness extended to making sacrifices for his children, ensuring their purity. Little did he know that his life was about to take a drastic turn.

In the heavenly realms, a divine council gathered, and Satan presented himself before God. The Lord pointed out Job as an exemplary servant. Satan, however, questioned Job's integrity, suggesting that his faithfulness was due to God's protection and blessings. God permitted a series of trials, resulting in the loss of Job's possessions, children, and health.

Job's response to these devastating events is remarkable. In the face of unimaginable grief, he tore his robe, shaved his head, and fell to the ground in worship, declaring, "Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked I will depart. The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; may the name of the Lord be praised" (Job 1:21).

Responding to Suffering

Job's story provides profound insights for us into responding to suffering:

1. Grieve: The Journey Begins with Tears

   Grieving is a natural and healthy response to loss. Job's initial reaction, marked by tears and acknowledging the Lord's sovereignty, sets an example for us. Grief allows us to process and honor the depth of our emotions.

2. Sit with Friends

   Job's friends demonstrated the power of presence by sitting with him in silence for seven days and nights. When comforting a suffering friend, sometimes words are unnecessary. Simply being there, crying with them, and offering silent support can be incredibly meaningful.

3. Do Not Sin: Stay with God in Grief

   Job's resilience in not sinning during his suffering is a crucial lesson. In our grief, it's essential to avoid blaming God or distorting His nature. Staying with God, sharing our emotions honestly, and not turning away from Him are key to navigating the path of suffering.

Jesus and Job: A Tale of Innocence and Redemption

As we consider Job's suffering, let's not forget another innocent servant, Jesus. While Job's story offers solace and guidance, Jesus' sacrifice on the cross brings eternal redemption. Through accepting Jesus as our Lord and Savior, we find hope in the promise of a future without suffering.

Job's journey provides space for you to explore his questions, be encouraged by his resilience, and ultimately find hope in the restoration he experiences. Together, let us embark on this transformative journey, trusting that even in our darkest moments, God remains with us.

Stay tuned for the continuation of Job's story, a narrative that promises hope and understanding in the midst of suffering.